When you see someone who you know has gone through some stuff it is natural to want to comfort them. We want them to know they are not alone and we are there if they need us. A lot of times someone will approach you and say something like ” Wow! You look terrible! I know this ______ is taking its toll on you.” or “Man, you look so tired! I know you are just worn out from all this _________.” I know people mean well and say this in a way to comfort you, to commiserate with your plight. I get that.
What if you had just taken the time to refresh yourself and you’re feeling particularly upbeat and good? Because they do not know what is happening with you, I mean they do know that you’re going through stuff; which is why they want to say the…
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